Judith Butler's theory of performativity posits that gender is not an inherent aspect of identity, but rather a performance that is repeated and reinforced over time (Butler, 1990). In the context of becoming femme, this performance is particularly significant, as individuals seek to embody and express femininity in a way that is both authentic and alluring. For sissies and shemales, becoming femme often involves a deliberate and self-conscious performance of femininity, which can include aspects such as makeup, fashion, and mannerisms.