At the memorial, stories unfurl like flags. There is laughter between sobs, which is not disrespect but a truer kind of remembrance: Uma’s antics demand that life be remembered with the same wildness with which she lived it. A friend tells the story of Uma teaching an old dog to waltz; another speaks of her uncanny knack for finding the perfect mismatched socks for anybody who needed them. Even the city’s indifferent skyline seems to blush at the retelling.