Tufos were craftsmen of ceremony. Birthdays were public holidays, marked with stolen balloons and the ceremonious burning of a single paper crown. Funerals were loud enough to be inconvenient to the city; they made grief an event, a confetti of memories that rifled through the gutters and stuck under shoe soles for days. They turned marginalia into scripture — the little notes scrawled on subway seats, the names whispered into telephone mouthpieces, the graffiti that read like a love letter in an unfamiliar language.